from a Mother to her Child

I must constantly remind myself that I really am only your guide for a short time;
You are on your own Journey.
I promise to hold you, but never hold on to you.

When you looked at me with your big eyes searching for a hug, a kiss, comfort and security, my heart melted with joy. I was there in an instant knowing that today you turn to me for everything. I yearned to hold you, protect you, and nurture you; and while it made me whole to meet you needs, I must constantly remind myself that I really am only your guide for a short time, you are on your own Journey, a bud that will blossom into its own brilliant flower. I know there will come a time when you will no longer look to me for all your needs, when you must search for your own answers, when you will want to wander around the world and collect your own treasures. I know there will come a time when I will have to let go and admit that you are old enough to make your own decisions and determine your own actions. I promise you that I will let go and give you the freedom to grow and become your own person. And whenever you want my advice, my embrace, and my smile I will be there for you. I will always answer your call, and I will always be there as an anchor when you need me. And While I know at times it will be hard for me to hold back, I will respect your freedom and give you wings to fly freely with confidence, joy and security.

(..The above was given by my mom to me. Thank you mom for sharing this with me and making me understand the meaning of Motherhood...)